No Huntington Valley Classes

I have decided not to hold classes in Huntington Valley this year.

We are now registering for our September 2021 Classes !!!!!

Creative Parenting Classes are preparing to OPEN safely in September.
We will follow CDC guidelines.

This class is for toddlers, 16 months through 3 years old and a special adult.
During each hour long class your child will make a craft, socialize with other kids during free play,sing,dance,exercise,enjoy fingerplays,bells, parachute play,bubbles, snack and storytime !!!!
All the things your child loves in an hour long class.

We have a special 1 1/2 hour class for kids who will be three by Dcember 15. This is only in Newtown 9on Thurs. or Fri.
This class is a great prep for preschool . It is likie a min preschool but with y9ou there for support.

Come have some FUN with your toddler.

A Woman’s Place Holiday Party

Last year, Creative Parenting moms did a great job collecting for “A Woman’s Place “Christmas party where they set up a Secret Shop, so the kids can shop for their moms. We would like to help them again this year.
I have called “A Women’s Place” in Warrington and they could really use our help. This shelter for women who are faced with domestic violence and abuse. Many of the women and children arrive there with nothing but the clothes on their back. The families are from Bucks County.
They need diapers (size 4 and 5 if possible) wipes and formula. They have asked for toilet paper, paper towels , and tissues.
New this year,they are asking for peanut butter ,jelly and cereal.
The families have a holiday party on Dec. 10th. The shelter sets up a shop where moms can shop for their kids and where the kids can pick out gifts for mom. They are in desperate need of gifts for this Christmas shop.
We are NOT collecting toys. The shelter likes to give moms gift cards so they can pick out their own presents for their children.
In the spirit of the holiday, I am asking if you would like to help me make this a happy holiday for these families.
The director told me that the children are between newborn and age 18. They really would like GIFT cards. We raised over 1500.00 in gift cards last year and I am hopeful we can do better. Because of the bad economy, the director suggested grocery store and Wal-Mart, Target and Kmart gift cards this year (stores that sell a variety of things)
For the moms she suggested picture frames, purses, wallets, costume jewelry (She said this is a favorite with the kids) makeup gift sets, slippers, robe and pajama sets, coffee mugs, tea pots holiday decorations ,sweaters and Bath and Body Works gift sets.
Presents should not be wrapped, but if you put a bow and ribbon around it to make it festive, it would be appreciated.
If you want to help out, you can give your donation to your classroom teacher. We will deliver all donations on Dec. 6th. If you call me, I will come to your location to pick up your donations. All donations can be dropped off at Newtown Church.
They are also in need of cookies, brownies, soft pretzel and krispie treats for the party on the 10th. You can drop the treats off at Newtown on the 11th of Dec.
Please ask your playgroups scout troops and moms club if they would like to help.
Please email me if you have any questions.
Thank you, Maryanne Fisher 215-322-5755

Ways to Give Your Children a Voice

5 Ways to Give Your Children a Voice

1. Stop moving and stop doing when they speak to you.

By looking up from the task at hand and looking into your children’s eyes, you are indicating you value their thoughts, no matter how trivial. This provides both a foundation and an invitation for more difficult conversations as they grow.

* Tip: If your days are full and you cannot give your undivided attention whenever your child speaks, make sure there is a time of day when you can be ALL there. Maybe it is at bedtime or right afterschool. When my older daughter was 3 she began asking for “talk time” at night. It involved ten minutes of her asking innocent questions and telling me trivial things and me giving her my undivided attention. She is now 12 and we still have “talk time” every night. As one would expect, the questions and topics have become more serious, and I am grateful to be part of the conversation.

2. Respect their words.

Maybe it takes time for them to put their thoughts into words. It’s okay; you don’t have to finish their sentences—they will come. Maybe their opinion is completely nuts. It’s okay; you don’t have to agree. Maybe they remember something differently than the way you do. It’s okay; you don’t have to be “right”. By giving them the time and space to share what’s on their hearts, you are strengthening their voice.

3. Let them speak for themselves whenever possible.

When my children have something they want to tell the coach, the waiter, or the sales clerk, I first let them practice what they want to say and then they are encouraged to speak for themselves. I will never forget when we were sitting at my child’s fifth grade parent/teacher conference and the teacher asked if we had any concerns. My daughter quietly spoke up to say she loved helping her classmates but there was one student who made her feel very uncomfortable. The teacher said, “I hear you. I understand.” I was relieved that my child was able to express this feeling of unease in an effort to protect herself. I commend the teacher for validating my daughter’s feelings by her supportive response.

4. Let them be the expert of something.

When my younger daughter was 4, I could not locate my car in a mall parking lot and feared it had been stolen. She quickly pointed out that we were not in the right section and showed me the way. That night, I deemed her ‘The Parking Lot Expert’ and she beamed. She is 9 now and still calls out, “Don’t worry, Mom! I remember where we parked!” She is also The Name Expert in our family because she always remembers people’s names. I also designated her The Music Expert because she knows how to tune and play her instruments, as well as sing beautifully. Children soar when their gifts are acknowledged and affirmed. By letting them lead, it gives them confidence to voice their skills and wisdom.

5. Pause before responding when troubling information is shared.

When children describe shocking information or confess to making a poor choice, take a 3-second pause and try this response: “Thank you for trusting me with this. You did the right thing by telling me.” No matter how angry you are or how much you want to scold them, it can take just one volatile outburst to shut down future communications with your child. “Thank you for trusting me with this,” opens up both the discussion at hand and the discussions of the future. Think about who you want them to confide in when they are worried, scared, or hurt. If you want it to be you, muster all the grace you have and speak calmly in troubling times.

© Rachel Macy Stafford 2015